Money matters among men and women
There are innumerable differences between women and men, including when it comes to money matters. That’s both in terms of how we think about money, and how we manage it.
Though the economic makeup of today’s population has evolved over recent generations, there remain important and relevant distinctions. As well, historical rules of thumb and so-called common wisdom may no longer apply in today’s economy, especially if they were premised or skewed toward male characteristics.
For women, this necessitates taking a principled approach to financial matters generally – and investing in particular – reflecting our current society and their own individual characteristics.
Ability to earn, capacity to save
On average, women face greater challenges in being able to save effectively toward their later years. According to Statistics Canada, women as a group earn about 87 cents for every dollar earned by men. While the reasons are complex and the situation has improved over recent decades, this is a systemic hurdle to be aware of, though it may apply to a greater or lesser extent for a given individual.
Being part of a couple may relieve this concern to some extent. Two can usually live cheaper than one, and therefore save more, both in working and retirement years. However, if there is a breakdown, women tend to fare worse economically post-relationship. That’s in addition to any depletion of mutual savings if the parting is contentious.
Women may leave the workforce to raise children, reducing their income during the time they are away, and possibly affecting their career prospects. Again, statistics show that women spend more time than men in child-rearing, even when both continue to work. As well, women tend more often to be family caregivers to older generations, requiring periodic time away from work, and possibly indeterminate leave in some cases.
Whether these commitments are by choice, due to social pressures or driven by a particular family’s economic demands, they affect both current income and the ability to build savings.
Saving for a longer life expectancy
Typically, women live almost five years longer than men. While it is a positive to be able to share extended time with family and friends, it comes with financial baggage. The prospect of a longer life has the built-in need to fund a longer retirement. And it’s not only the length of time that must be considered, but also how that time is spent.
Take the traditional male-female relationship. A married woman will generally live through the waning health and end-of-life care of her husband. On top of the financial, physical and emotional demands, on average she then has another half decade ahead of her. It could even be longer if, as was perhaps more common in past generations, she married someone older than her. Of course, a new relationship may blossom, but she has to be prepared for the likelihood of eventually being entirely on her own.
Thus, her financial planning must anticipate being part of two end-of-life processes, with all their related costs. Even with the benefit of a helpful adult child or other family member when she is in decline, it is likely that she will require more assisted living services and professional support (and accordingly more associated cost) than was required in the care of her husband when she herself may have carried much of the load on a daily basis.
In a same-sex relationship, you have two women each with longer life expectancy than men. While it may be a guess which partner may be the survivor, there will be more expected years of declining health to fund, possibly both happening at the same time. That is in addition to the income and savings challenges that now both sides of the couple may have experienced in their working years, as mentioned above.
What’s a woman to do?
Be intimately informed
As a woman, you must be informed about financial matters from the very beginning, as you are more likely to face the brunt of it at the very end. This is self-evidently true for singles, and more likely than not in either type of couple relationship as outlined above.
Start saving early, for flexibility later
Individual earning capabilities and family circumstances will vary, but having savings both in-hand and in-mind from the earliest point provides the best grounding to respond to circumstances as life unfolds.
Invest with balanced intention
Those savings have to be invested while delicately balancing two competing priorities: you need to participate in market advances to build savings in your accumulating years, and protect against market retreats in your decumulating years so funds are there when you need them.
Be emotionally aware to be financially prepared
There is an old myth that men invest logically and women invest emotionally. While that stark distinction has been debunked, it is true that both logic and emotion influence money matters for all of us. Accept and listen to the emotions that can affect your behaviour, so that you can make informed decisions that best serve your lifelong needs.
Speak to a financial advisor about how these points about women generally may apply to you specifically. Together, you can then review your savings routine and investment portfolio to ensure that they align with your long-term personal and financial goals.